The two are intimately related . And the two are so different ! What are the differences between friendship and love? Is platonic friendship between people of the opposite sex is possible? Trying to understand.
What is friendship? Why do we call a person our friend ? When do we call someone a good friend ? If we care for a person , if we are always willing to help that person and if we share most of our thoughts with a person, they are our good friends. We can always count on our friends in an emergency . We are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain way . We do not have to explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our friends.
What is love? In a deep love relationship , while sharing that we discussed earlier, it is assumed . But love transcends all this. For love, which bind with a particular person , while in friendship , one can have many friends. A romantic relationship makes both attached to the other , which is bad if his / her beloved is hurt! Love also involves a physical element . Friendship is not that . This is an essential difference. Nature gives us love so that species can move forward . Nature does not give us friendship.
His heart never increase in anticipation of meeting your friend. You will not be awake at night thinking of his friend. You will not feel totally lost , if you do not meet your friend for a few days . You will not have dreams in your eyes thinking about her friend. But in love , you will do all this and more . In fact, there is no comparison between love and friendship.
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